Why Men Love Bitches? 

Have you ever wondered why men love bitches or why a men want to marry a particular woman? Is it about timing? Religion? Sex? Money? In her two-part books, “Why Men Love Bitches?” and “Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart,” Sherry Argov shows women how to transform a casual relationship into a committed one.

First of all, let’s define who the bitches are. In the Longman Dictionary, bitches are those women that you dislike or think are unpleasant. 

Accordingly to Merriam Webster, the word is informal, and often offensive. It usually describes a malicious, spiteful, or overbearing woman. Also it is used as a generalized term of abuse and disparagement for a woman. 

In Argov’s books, bitches are those strong independent women who believe in strength of female beings that they can choose their espouses not being chosen. 

She made dozens of interviews with men, as they are found in the two books. Argov found that men want to commit to women who exude confidence and are in control of their own lives. 

In her opinion, strong women alway win men’s hearts. In this regard, she wrote: 

“Imagine a world in which roles were reversed and men cooked for women, picked up socks, and couldn't wait to get married. Pretend you had a boyfriend who owned a hope chest with six lavender bow ties inside that he wanted his groomsmen to wear at the wedding. Picture him getting choked up every time you strolled past a Baby Gap. And that he greeted you at the door wearing silk boxers and cowboy boots, so he could do a pole dance for you. Then add a few ultimatums: “Where's my ring?” “Why won't you marry me?”

All men interviewed by Argov said that “confident women are in very short supply.” And that a confident woman is what they find sexiest.

To sum up, to win a man’s heart, you have to win yourself first and be a WOMAN.