Getting Kids to Listen Isn't Hard Any More! (1)

Mothers might think that getting their toddlers to listen as such is a very big job, but also a hard one indeed. The little ones might have hundreds of things that can attract their attention while their mom is almost yelling at them, hoping to be listened to.

In fact, experts believe that the little ones need mothers to teach them how to pay attention.

If you are a mother, here's your surprise.. You may find yourself repeating something for 10 or more times and then, counting down to punishment.experts believe that what this does is condition your child not to listen until the 10th time.

It is by not listening, your child is getting your attention.  Teaching your kids to be good listeners will give them more positive responses from you. This will help them to learn more effectively and be more alert to danger. Experts believe that listening, in the long run, will mean she\he gets along better with you and their  teachers, and it will also help them to make friends.

Experts at Baby Center provided simple strategies to help your toddler listen better:

 

- Read to them:

Reading aloud to your toddlers is a great way to improve their listening skills. Use silly voices, or emphasise certain words or phrases to get their attention. Try to get fresh reading material as often as you can. You can also buy books that are specially written to teach children to listen.

- Get down to their level

Squat down or pick up your children so that you can look them  in the eye and grab their attention. They'll be more inclined to listen.

- Share mealtimes

Mealtimes are a perfect time to have  time for your whole family to sit down and talk to each other. It may not be possible to do this every day, but even try to set one day a week, for everyone to sit down and share a meal. Having a table will give your toddler a chance to see parents interacting and listening, and it will also allow an opportunity to chat and listen, too.

- Be clear

Mothers should state their messages clearly, simply and authoritatively. And try not to phrase something as a question if your toddler doesn't actually have a choice. "It's time to get into your car seat," has much more impact than, "Do you want to climb into your car seat now?".